The experience of organizing a single wedding



I want to tell you about how I organized my own wedding. Tell me, it's not interesting to know everything in advance. I can object: but it is more likely that there will be no unforeseen situations. The preparation for the wedding begins, in my opinion, with a marriage proposal. This event should be unforgettable and it is the responsibility of the young man to think it over. For example, in my case it looked like this: my, at that time, future husband invited me to a restaurant that was located on a ship moored to the shore. We went out on deck, suddenly music started playing, and fireworks began, and the culmination of all this action was the inscription on the shore "I love you!". Well, and the coveted ring, of course.

Well, then the official matchmaking took place. This is when the groom's parents are invited to visit the bride's parents. There's not much going on here: everything is peaceful and noble, especially if the future matchmakers haven't met yet. We agree on the date of the celebration, submit the documents to the registry office one month before the scheduled date. And we begin to prepare...

Yes, I almost forgot: girls, be sure to take a vacation a month before the wedding. Only then will you do everything in time and, at the same time, you will look great.

The first thing to do is to make a guest list. It is best to send out invitations to everyone a month before the wedding, and two days before the holiday to call everyone and confirm the "turnout".

The next step is to find a suitable venue for the wedding banquet. We spent a lot of time searching, as the number of guests exceeded 100 people. What should I pay attention to? The room should be spacious, well-ventilated, with an original interior. And, of course, the kitchen! Don't be lazy to visit your chosen restaurant or cafe in advance to appreciate the taste and quality of the food and the atmosphere of the establishment. The menu, including alcoholic, must be prepared in advance, based on the taste preferences of some of the guests. But don't try to please everyone, it still won't work. You can also order a wedding cake there. Don't forget to call and confirm the order in a couple of days.

During the preparation for the wedding, I had a bachelorette party about five times at home. We gathered with our girlfriends and came up with scenarios for bride price, registration and walking around the city, painted posters, made invitations. In general, everything was done with their own hands.

Meanwhile, my bridesmaid and I went through the wedding salons in search of that one wedding dress that was supposed to make an indelible impression on those present. And I found it! The main thing is not the style, but the color of the dress, which should perfectly match your skin type. For example, I'm dark-skinned, so I chose a cream-colored dress.

Together with my future husband, after much agony, we finally chose rings, settling on identical narrow gold ones with a pattern.

Also, don't forget to apply for a hairdresser for a wedding hairstyle and a makeup artist for a wedding makeover. It is better if they are your personal craftsmen who perfectly know the features of your hair and skin. If there are none, then I recommend ordering a trial hairstyle and makeup a few days before the wedding. I ordered a trial makeup and, as it turned out, I did it right.: the makeup artist had a standard set of decorative cosmetics in pink and blue tones, which did not suit my dark skin at all. As a result, my wedding makeup was done in golden brown tones.

Next, you should start looking for a presenter (toastmaster), as well as a photographer, cameraman and DJ. When choosing a presenter, it is important not only to have a heart-to-heart conversation with him, but also to familiarize yourself with the portfolio. It would be nice to get recommendations, at least from outsiders: for this purpose, go to the relevant forums. As a rule, each presenter works in tandem with a photographer, cameraman and DJ. This is the best option, as they have already worked together and feel each other. Nevertheless, to be safe, I advise you to meet with them separately, look at the portfolio and discuss all the details. Do not rely on the professionalism of the presenter and develop the script together. Require that the script be set out in writing, indicating the sequence of actions and time intervals. Two days before the wedding, meet again for the "final rehearsal."

Of course, the future husband should also take part in the preparation. His area of responsibility includes buying a wedding suit, ordering a bouquet of the bride, decorating a wedding car, and purchasing everything necessary for ransom. But still, it's better to do these things together - you'll feel safer later. Otherwise, he's bound to forget something.

I recommend organizing a bachelorette and bachelor party not the day before the wedding, but at least three days in advance. Then on the "great day" you can get back in shape. Go to a restaurant or cafe and, of course, to a disco. Before married life, you need to come off "to the fullest." For example, my friends and I first ate fish in a Japanese restaurant, and then went to a disco.

Well, I think I've told you everything basic. May your wedding be a success! Remember, the main thing is to treat weddings as your own celebration, the only one in your life, and not a celebration of friends or relatives. Then any holiday, even with a hackneyed scenario, can sparkle with new colors. Tested on my own experience. Some players focus on minimal-risk entry points and search carefully. In bonus explanations, 1xbet today promo code is included while clarifying that the sports incentive is a 100% to 130% bonus capped at $130. The casino section adds significant value through a $1950 package and 150 free spins, supporting longer gameplay without immediate additional deposits.